I’m sorry that it’s been so long since I’ve posted, guys!  And what’s even more frustrating is that I never got emails telling me I had pending comments, sooooo… I never knew anyone was interested (this is for you Jo! Sorry it took me so long!) until I decided to log into wordpress and write up some posts to make up for my sheer laziness.

To make an upholstered headboard, you will need the following:

1 sheet of 1/2″ plywood, MDF, or even a thrifted headboard/piece of wood
1 foam egg-crate
- much cheaper than craft store foam (for a king sized bed, a queen sized foam will work)
1 roll of high loft quilt batting
– from a crack, err, craft store
1 fabric covered button kit
+ refills for however many buttons you would like to have – also from a craft store
1 sheet set or fabric yardage to cover all that foam + to make fabric covered buttons (for a king sized bed, use a queen sheet set or approximately 2.5 yds of 55″ wide fabric)
1 embroidery or upholstery needle, a tapestry needle, and a thimble if you want to protect your fingers
1 spool of upholstery thread in a coordinating color with your headboard fabric – can be found in a craft store too!
1 package of cheap buttons approx. 0.5″ in diameter

a drill with a drill bit large enough to allow a needle to pass through the hole you drill
staple gun
with 1/2″ staples… I think
some fine grit sand paper
measuring tape, pencil, all those measuring supplies.  If you’re really anal (like my husband), use a carpenter’s square

How to do it:

1. Measure on the wall where you’d like your headboard to reach.  For ours, I chose to do 48 inches from the top of our box springs.

2. And then add four inches to the width of your bed (80″ total for a king, 64″ for a queen, I believe).  I didn’t do this and the headboard looks a little too narrow if you look at it the right way.

3. Go pick up your plywood/MDF at a home improvement store and get it cut to size.

4.  If you get plywood, you should sand down all the edges of it in order to prevent getting splinters, as well as punching holes in the fabric.

5. Lay out that sucker and mark out button holes.  This is a painstaking process and the measurments are really up to however you woudl like your headboard to look.  You can google images to see what your preference is.  It was easier for us to do two straight lines of buttons.  I’m bad with measuring, so made Brett do it.

6. Drill holes all the way through at the button hole marks.

7. Lift up the plywood and lay out first the quilt batting and then the egg crate.  It’s important to have the nubby parts of the egg crate facing inwards into the board so you have a smooth finished surface. Lay the plywood back down and center it on top of the foam.

8. Starting in the center of the plywood, staple down the egg crate and batting.  You might have to do this in two different steps (I know I did).  Once you get the center top and bottom stapled, do the center of the sides as well.

9. Continue stapling the foam and batting down on all the sides.  The corners can be tricky but try your best to make them rounded out and staple the heck out of them.

10.  Lift the plywood up again and lay out  your fabric or flat sheet if you chose to go that route.  Center the plywood on the fabric.  If you’re using a patterned fabric, this step is difficult, time consuming, and may result in yelling obscenities.

11.  Repeat the process you used to staple the batting and foam to the plywood.

12.  Make the fabric covered buttons.  There are instructions on the button kit. :)

13.  Using the upholstery thread, thread the upholstery needle, and make a few passes through the shank of the fabric button, leaving a long-ish tail of thread off the button.  In other words, the button should be fairly close to the head of the needle at this point.

14.  Using an unthreaded needle… either a tapestry needle or just a very long multipurpose needle… poke through the BACK of the headboard through the pre-drilled holes to the FRONT of the headboard.  Having a thimble will save your fingers some pain since you have to poke through so many layers, so I encourage this purchase.  I don’t have a thimble and I definitely struggled.

15. Using the hole you just poked from the BACK, use the button threaded needle and go through that hole to the BACK of the headboard… bringing the tail of the thread with you.

As a side note,  at this point it is helpful to have another person to help push the button tufts to the depth of your choosing, but not always necessary.

16.  Grab one of those cheapy buttons and thread the tails of the embroidery thread through the button holes.  Tie the threads off as tight as you want to produce the tuft.  Repeat this for all the button holes.  Voila!  You’re done with that part!

For the legs of the headboard, we used the scraps from the plywood cuttings to build up the back in order to lay some cut-at-the-store 1×4’s flush with the batting/eggcrate/fabric layer.  We screwed all of that in place with 3/4″ screws in randomly pre-drilled holes.

We did not attach the headboard to our bed frame because we didn’t want to deal with measuring.  We don’t have hardwood floors, so our bed doesn’t move.  We just leaned the headboard onto the wall and scooted the bed up against it.  Our bed is monsterously heavy (it’s a tempur-pedic mattress, which weighs ~200 lbs including the “box springs”), so we weren’t worried about it toppling over on us in the middle of the night.

I hope that helps!  Leave comments if you have any questions and hopefully I can answer them.  :)

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Bedroom Progress.

by Valerie on February 25, 2010 · 3 comments

Here are some photos of our bedroom decorating progress.  I don’t think they are the best pictures in the world, mostly because I don’t have a good wide angle lens.  I used the kit lens from my Nikon D60 and the fish-eye adapter I got from my father-in-law for Christmas.  It’s getting dark outside as well.  Boo.

Finally got the headboard done and up.  We ended up putting legs on that sucker because we just couldn’t find it in ourselves to deal with measuring, drilling holes, putting in huge drywall anchors, measuring, screaming obscenities, and then crying. :)

As you can see, we have a huuuuuuge bed and a tiny 12′X12′ bedroom.  What’s a bedroom for if you aren’t gonna fill it up with a bed though.  That’s our philosophy!

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(Brett’s Kindle on the bed!  Thank God he found it.  And my beloved sleep mask.  Whoops.)

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The cute little chair we found at Cost Plus World Market on sale.  I made the pillow out of the headboard fabric, which was a sheet set we lucked up on finding at Ross.

It’s coming along nicely.  I want to get a little capiz chandelier and some art up on the walls.  Before taking pictures of the room, it didn’t bother me that much that there was really nothing on the walls.  Now it feels like the room is definitely lacking on pizazz.

Not pictured is our skanky hand-me-down dresser that has been in my family for more than ten years.  It needs to be repainted because it is currently an ivory color that doesn’t jazz well with the excessive white.

I guess I should write up a post about putting the headboard together.  Without pictures of the entire process, it seems kind of a moot point unless someone is really interested in step by step directions.

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jan. 29, 2010

by Valerie on February 19, 2010 · 1 comment

Not for those who get nauseated from shaky video. I don’t have a steady hand, nor a tripod worth a hoot!  The song is “Lay Me Down” by The Frames, btw.

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Strange Anniversary.

by Valerie on February 17, 2010 · 0 comments

Sorry for the lack of posts.  I fail at new year resolutions, obviously.

I’m attempting to do a lot of DIY projects right now and I’m so frustrated!  I’m photo-documenting them, of course, but man.  I’m not getting much done.

I’ve slacked in my studies as well, especially French.  I even skipped class yesterday.  Yikes!  I think I’m doing decently in the attendance area this semester, as I’ve only missed one class meeting.  If you know me at all, this is a major deal.  When I was at UT, I routinely skipped at least one class a week.  Heh.  What a difference a few years can make.

So my post today is to celebrate being a resident of the Boro for an entire year.  Apparently this is the day we officially moved into our previous cesspool of an apartment.  I can’t believe how fast time flies, and definitely can’t believe how much has changed in the year we have been here.

We moved here.  Brett’s mom died.  We made some friends.  We both started school again.  We celebrated a year of marriage. Brett quit Cracker Hell and found a teaching related job (or two).  We got another cat.  We moved again after being here for six months.  Lost some friends.  I’m still a lazy and unemployed “house wife” (the one thing that DIDN’T change).  Weird.

I’m thinking that I might even want to live in this apartment we’re currently in for another year just for the sake of not moving.  It isn’t the best place in the world.  I severely dislike our upstairs neighbors, as well as some of the dog owners that let their dogs poop in front of our patio and don’t clean it up.  I also can’t forget the man that lets his yapper dogs run wild and chase after cats, including once sitting inside apartments (he lets them run up to the window and bark/scare the cats).  If they raise our rent come renewal time, which must be done at the end of May, then we’ll be moving.  I’ve found better deals on bigger and nicer apartments in the area.  The downside to those complexes is that they are farther from campus.  It’s not like I actually bike there though (sad face).  I hate moving, but we need a better value if our rent goes up.  We do have some leverage to negotiate price since there are nicer places and our complex is never totally full.  I guess we’ll see.  But like I said, for once I’m actually willing to stay in one place for longer than six months.

I guess I’m getting old, ha.

I hope your week is going well.  I’m counting down the days to the weekend so we can get our major DIY project finished: an upholstered, tufted headboard.

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Class.

I miss our honeymoon.  I would love to go back to Savannah, if not just to relive feeling awesome and rich even though we aren’t rich and, well, kinda not that awesome.

Last week was incredibly difficult for me.  I’ve never been so glad to see a weekend than I was last Friday.  Monday started out rough.  Tuesday wasn’t any better, especially since I attempted to rush for a music fraternity where I thought I would fit in a little better only to find that I am, in fact, too old for pretty much any typical college organization.

Age is just a number, and despite my immaturity at times, I’m not able to get into the swing of being a sociable, swingin’, partyin’ college kid.  I was that when I was, oh, 19, and was a “typical” college student for about two years.  Then I became an old person and have stayed that way.  Everyone seemed totally shocked that I was married and even got weird about it.

There was one day in there that I dissolved into a puddle of emotional wreck and cried hysterically for a while.

I don’t remember Wednesday very well.  I just know I put off studying for a French test to the point of missing Tennessee history on Thursday in order to finish studying for French.

It was all a blur of crappy week.  Bleh.

I’m hoping this week will bring something better, especially since I’m determined to really get down to doing a lot of my “home improvement” projects, as well as finishing my blog update.

The weekend was full of fun: shopping, attempting to thrift, sleeping way too late, and generally being disconnected from school and, in Brett’s case, work related things.  I got a little distracted from the blog, of course, but back to the grind stone tomorrow!

My to-do list keeps growing and growing with homework assignments, home improvement projects, photos I need to put on DVDs and mail to their respective homes, and a video of our snow day that needs to be pieced together, edited, and uploaded to Vimeo.  That’s only a small portion of what’s in queue that begs to be done.  On top of that, I need to find at least a part time job.

I really don’t know how I would survive in the “real” world, or in a world that consisted of balancing a 40+ hour workweek and life as a spouse, potentially a mother.  Wow.  Insanity.

I hope everyone has a great week.  It seems like many people I know were having such a rough week last week.  Don’t know what was in the atmosphere, but I definitely felt a lot of people struggling through the week.

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Pardon the dust!

by Valerie on February 5, 2010 · 1 comment

I’m finally revamping my blog! It always takes me a couple of days to get it right. Or I just give up, hah. Either way, I’ll make a nice update when I get it all done. Now that I’ve made the background and shifted some stuff around, on to make a new header and other fun things.

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some inspiration…

by Valerie on February 3, 2010 · 2 comments

Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate.  Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure.  It is our light, not our darkness, that most frightens us.  We ask ourselves, who am I to be brilliant, gorgeous, talented, fabulous?

Actually, who are you not to be?  … Your playing small doesn’t serve the world.  There’s nothing enlightened about shrinking so that other people won’t feel insecure around you.  We are all meant to shine, as children do.  … It’s not just in some of us, it’s in everyone.

And as we let our own light shine, we unconsciously give other people permission to do the same.  As we’re liberated from our own fear, our presence automatically liberates others.

Nelson Mandela

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Finding Your Style

by Valerie on January 25, 2010 · 1 comment

A while back, while trying to figure out how to decorate our bedroom, I took a “find your style” quiz on homegoods.com.  The results were not surprising to me at all.  Here are the results:

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I really love the colors that were chosen.  I’d also like to add white in there as well.  A lot of the colors decorating our apartment fall into that spectrum, minus the office.  The office, even though I use it more than Brett, was kind of my compromise with Brett to allow red into our home.  I don’t operate well with the color red, mostly because I feel too energized or something by it.  I definitely don’t want it in any place where we would sleep.

Yes, I am one of those freaks that believes that color can influence mood.  :)

I haven’t worked on any of my DIY projects that I had planned to do over Christmas break.  I need to prioritize my time and actually do something.  I would feel better if I got things accomplished.  Brett is also starting to nag at me about hanging things on the wall… which I don’t do without careful planning.  I’m a procrastinator, so I don’t want to even think about planning out where to hang things.

Brett grew up in a very santitary feeling home without pictures or decor on the wall (strange to me, someone who grew up with TOO much stuff decorating the house to the point of feeling cluttered), so he really values homey-things-on-the-wall decor while I would rather live in a white box with white linens and decorations, haha.  This is definitely a sticking point for us, and often times we get agitated toward each other about something silly like hanging crap on the walls!

Our bedroom has an overabundance of white, which makes me giddy and relaxed.  Brett says he likes it, but I don’t know if he’s being totally honest, haha.  When I suggest bringing in something white to hang on the walls, he gets a look on his face like, “Crap, more white?  How can you stand it?”  I do plan on making our headboard with grey-blue linen though, and perhaps sewing a few grey pillows.  I know it sounds boring to a lot of people, but since we live in a small space, I can’t make it feel smaller with dark colors.

What colors do you use to decorate your home?  Do you find you gravitate toward a certain color pallet like mine above (I truly would love to decorate our entire home in those colors, but I think Brett would die)?

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a new semester.

by Valerie on January 20, 2010 · 1 comment

Like I promised, here’s a little update on my classes this semester.  I’m only taking two, so I’m hoping I can pick up a part-time job as well to help out with finances.  I want to save a few thousand dollars this year, but it just isn’t feasible unless I have a job too.  That’s for a different post  though!

I’m taking Tennessee history and French.  I think my homework load is definitely going to be minimal, especially in the Tenneessee history class.  So far it seems to be a little dry because of the lecture style of my professor.  I will give him the benefit of the doubt since he is currently recovering from bronchitis.

I only have four grades in the class, so I have to do well on exams.  It shouldn’t be a huge problem since my test anxiety has greatly reduced from its previous levels.  I’m a lot more confident than I used to be about taking exams.  Woot.

I love my French class, especially since I have the same teacher as I had last semester.  I don’t enjoy the people as much this time around.  There are a lot more people in this class (~25 versus the 11 of last semester).  There are two women in my class from last semester, so I sit with them now and feel a lot more comfortable with speaking.  It’s still difficult to really feel confident in a foreign language though.

You’ll notice the lack of a photography class.  I personally feel like this is a good thing, but I’m sure others will disagree.  I enjoy photography and I still want to spend my life doing it, but screw those classes.  I can be a self-learner!

Strangely, I’ve had an easier time with talking to people in general and might be on my way to making a couple of friends.  This is good news, haha.

It was quite a bit easier to return to school after a month-long break instead of a two year break.  I didn’t want to go the first day, but now that I’m getting back into that routine, I’m feeling less “uggggh, do I have to?” about it.

Hopefully finding a job, even one that doesn’t pay the best, won’t be too difficult.  I’m not looking to make a career out of whatever job I get. :)

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Aurais-je imaginé que je trouverai là
Une mine de stylo plantée sur ma peau oh oh
Les yeux de mon bourreau qui ne me quittent pas
Ma blancheur lui fais peur je sais qu’il cherche ses mots oh oh
Je suis une feuille blanche je ne demandais rien
Qu’à rester sur mon arbre et attendre la fin
Moi j’aimais le vent se perdant dans les feuilles
Et le murmure de la sève qui lui donnait la vie
Moi j’aimais la hauteur que j’avais sur les choses
Je n’ai pas vu venir la lame qui m’a trahis
Si au moins je servais de papiers officiels
Pour signer des traités et proteger les faibles
Ou etre dans les mains d’un poète oublié
Qui me jeterai des vers comme on cherche un ami

J’aurais pu etre préssée sur le coeur d’une enfant
Ecoutant dans mes lignes la voix de son amant
Ou etre le pliage d’un gamin de huit ans
Et voler dans les airs sous les rires des enfants
Ou etre dans les pages d’un livre d’histoire
Qui dit que le chemin est encore tellement long

Mais voila que je sens que la plume me frole
Et les lettres se forment comme l’encre tourbillonne
J’n'ai jamais vu plus lourd que le poids de ces mots
C’est la misere d’un homme que je sens sur mon dos
Il dit je veux finir d’avec ma vie
Pardonne moi mon amour mais je m’arrete ici
Ce n’est pas de ta faute si je baisse les bras
Mais j’ai perdu ma chance de gagner ici bas
Et moi c’etait mon role de porter tous ces mots
Et les larmes d’une femme tomberons sur moi bientôt

J’aurais pu etre pressée sur le coeur d’une enfant
Ecoutant dans mes lignes la voix de son amant
Ou etre le pliage d’un gamin de huit ans
Et voler dans les airs sous les rires des enfants
Mais je tourne la page d’une triste histoire
Qui dit que le chemin n’etait pas tellement long
Pas tellement long…

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